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Safford, kat Lonely Housewife, Husband Out OF Town.! are you like black adult dating Coventry bedworth. Teens lady want sex Sincere, caring, and supportive person seeks same for friendship w4m
I am open to any gender, but every time I do the 't' option, I come up empty handed. I'm a married woman in my late 30's and I've gone through some tough things over the last few years and have battled depression on and off as well. I have moved around a few times, and I have lost touch with so many old friends that I don't have anyone to on regularly, and I don't know too many people loy. The tough things in my life that've been rough, continue to be rough. :-( These things WILL get worse before they get any better; Not being a pessimist here, as it is true that I will have to face some really rough times in the upcoming future to get to a better place. Because of that, I haven't really attempted to form any new friendships. My pride gets in the way, I think. I am like a neglected house, and I am not yet ready to be put on the market. But I am lonely, neglected, and looking for a few caretakers to patch me up, until I am. In return, you can also take comfort and shelter in me. We all need friends to share the good times and to be a friend to us when they are bad. I have been trouble forming my own community of friends in the real world because I have so many 'problems' (things that i did not bring upon myself through poor behavior, etc-just bad bad luck). So, I figure that I would try virtually to find you, a real true, down to earth friend. Man or woman, of any age, say 30 and up to confide in me as I want to confide in you, and aim to do mostly non physical things with you (movies, lunch, coffee). Although, I do like to walk when I am able to do so with little pain (it depends on the day for me) and actually have quite a bit of energy and stamina when I am in the mood to walk. I like to walk in beautiful places. We are lucky to have many nearby, too. I'm a Mom to one young child. I am a wife. I seek friendships that are separate from these two things, because I am considering the new friend/s I acquire to be for me alone. My child and my husband do not have the same difficulties at this time in bonding with others at their current position in life. Although the hardship permeates my entire family. I just want some slices of happiness that are my very own right now, since I am the one struggling to make sincere friends. I am wanting to lose a great deal of weight and this is currently very hard for me. I love food, I love to cook, and I cook as cleanly (few preservatives if any), and mostly organiy when I can afford it, as well as buying produce that is local. When I don't, it's pre-made Trader Joe's or Costco fare, because I have a family who needs to eat, too. Despite my fairly good eating habits, I am very heavy. For me, the key is exercise, of which I am not able to do much of now. One of my predicaments, since it is very important that I am successful at losing weight, right now for reasons that I will speak on at another time. I am trying to gather my motivation and my drive to tackle the challenge and keep going with it when it gets difficult. Maybe you either have struggled, or do struggle with the same kinds of things...? Any motivational help would be lovely. I enjoy arts and crafts, film, art, nature, mild sunny days and picnics. I am very heavy (fat), very short (stumpy), and can tell that I'm not totally hideous, because people me 'cute' all the darn time. ;-) I am non judgmental, open, honest, empathetic, creative, loving and sensitive. I have a weakness for fashion and clothing and anything aesthetiy appealing. Because I am newly poor (oh yes, being cheap when dining out, etc is also important), I don't shop as an activity. Despite that, I have a huge wardrobe and like to look nice. I rarely drink alcohol, and try to abstain, but I do smoke pot occasionally for medicinal purposes. It doesn't need to happen when I am with you, though, if you are not a fan. I am a voracious coffee drinker. I think I pretty much said it all. If you can relate, help, or desire what I desire, please write! Share the story of who you are, what you want, and feel you need to be happy. |